tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post4337796503948170429..comments2024-03-27T11:33:52.821-04:00Comments on Living on Cloud Nine: GETTING RID OF THE TOXIC IN YOUR LIFEAndrea Ninehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11746436088260144774noreply@blogger.comBlogger51125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-16370360543625129552018-08-14T07:08:43.156-04:002018-08-14T07:08:43.156-04:00In our simple life, love plays a very specific rol...In our simple life, love plays a very specific role.Now we are able to make your love life healthy and it has no space for any type trouble. These all are possible with the help of AGBAZARA TEMPLE OF SOLUTION. 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It's not always easy to get rid of toxic people, especially if you have to live with them! #brillblogpostsRuth - Mummy and the Mexicanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870867541291779600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-10035885259665438772017-01-24T20:19:52.347-05:002017-01-24T20:19:52.347-05:00I love your point that we need people but not ever...I love your point that we need people but not every relationship. A lot of people I feel get "trapped" in toxic relationships due to loneliness and don't realize what letting go of those people can do for them. Thanks for sharing your tips at Merry Monday this week!Marie | DIY Adulationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02053289303351536650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-62115422194497418562017-01-24T09:18:19.207-05:002017-01-24T09:18:19.207-05:00Great post! With age brings wisdom ( in most cases...Great post! With age brings wisdom ( in most cases lol) and I've learned to let go of people who were detrimental to my happiness and wellbeing. I'm cordial, but I will never allow them to be in my life at the capacity they once were. It takes a strong person to do that!! #turnitupTuesdaysAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00495298426569535408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-89201634082682458842017-01-21T09:30:43.587-05:002017-01-21T09:30:43.587-05:00Definitely agree that there's no point staying...Definitely agree that there's no point staying in touch with someone who is only making you miserable. Sadly, I've had to purge several toxic friendships in my life. It's difficult and sad, but reducing the drama in your life is so worth it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13854277991316667331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-67486150782826384882017-01-20T05:08:14.323-05:002017-01-20T05:08:14.323-05:00Ive stopped seeing a few of my 'toxic' fri...Ive stopped seeing a few of my 'toxic' friends... I suddenly realised that If I didn't make the effort to see them i don't think I would se them at all! And I was right... it is harder with one of the most toxic people in my life right now as she happens to be my little sister so I can't cut her out... distance is good but she is a Maid of Honour at my wedding an a couple of months and Im dreading it (boy do I regret that decision now!) <3 #brilliantblogpostsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07511951556685155578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-79401907570190035202017-01-19T19:23:15.544-05:002017-01-19T19:23:15.544-05:00Love this post and its truth! Toxicity exists in m...Love this post and its truth! Toxicity exists in many things but people always forget that it can be present in relationships between one another. This has been so affirming and reassuring to read, thank you :) #brilliantblogposts Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13957115785600567238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-49581255517517714772017-01-19T07:24:13.869-05:002017-01-19T07:24:13.869-05:00Thanks for this post, I feel that there are many p...Thanks for this post, I feel that there are many people that understand me. I have some toxic people in my life but it's hard to stop seeing them when they are family :(Neisha Alvaradohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00320616708584181813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-69382641654121976572017-01-19T06:06:10.800-05:002017-01-19T06:06:10.800-05:00This is so relatable - really helpful reading, tha...This is so relatable - really helpful reading, thank you! Alexhttp://www.rosarts.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-53554069012323641812017-01-18T10:31:18.429-05:002017-01-18T10:31:18.429-05:00This is a post that most of us can relate to, and ...This is a post that most of us can relate to, and hopefully have eliminated that toxic person from our lives. I worked for two different toxic women and felt so free when I walked away. Some people aren't necessarily toxic (by being psychologically damaging) but they can suck the oxygen right out of a room with their complaining, whining and overall negative attitude. Andrea, I love your attitude. Life is too short to be down, xoxoDonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10328333345401673320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-20333727224457721972017-01-18T10:09:02.500-05:002017-01-18T10:09:02.500-05:00Hi! Thanks for sharing this. I loved all the eCard...Hi! Thanks for sharing this. I loved all the eCards, lol! I am all about cutting out the toxic and needed a little boost to help me remember that it is, in fact, the right thing to do. Sometimes I feel its my Christian duty to put up with people's junk, but I have to remind myself that being a Christian doesn't make me a doormat! Have a lovely day. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05602877127586787994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-45187489163346804492017-01-17T16:24:20.205-05:002017-01-17T16:24:20.205-05:00This is such a great post! I wish I would have le...This is such a great post! I wish I would have learned this lesson a lot earlier than I did. I had to cut a toxic friend out of my life and it was been so freeing, except when out mutual friends who were not affected in the same way come around because they don't understand and want us to all hang out. It is a tough transition, but so worth it!Missyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03331615511067156438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-26519715137242267012017-01-17T15:36:54.517-05:002017-01-17T15:36:54.517-05:00This is great! Removing toxic people is essential ...This is great! Removing toxic people is essential to your own personal happiness! This is something that I have learned early on in life and it is probably one of the best lessons. It can be so hard to let some people go without feeling guilt but I believe that it is better to walk away from a bad situation to open possibilities for great situations to happen! Thanks for this! I am glad I found your post on Turn it Up Tuesday!<br />-LyndseyLyndseyhttp://www.gainingsuccessyoung.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-35113936156849249042017-01-17T14:38:12.211-05:002017-01-17T14:38:12.211-05:00Wow, what an inspirational post Andrea! I agree wi...Wow, what an inspirational post Andrea! I agree with you, and the older I get, the easier it is to cut the toxic people out of my life. I just want to be happy and enjoy life, no bs or drama!Lizzie @ This Happy Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08039874918293541525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-71679757292386720562017-01-17T13:26:57.963-05:002017-01-17T13:26:57.963-05:00I was in a similar situation during my late teenag...I was in a similar situation during my late teenage years, and I was finally able to drop that toxic relationship in my early twenties. It has felt SO GOOD all of these years... until her son ended up in Olivia's class last year and I had to start seeing her at all of the class parties. It was soooo awkward! Fortunately they are not in the same class this year, and Olivia will be moving to another school when she turns 4, so I won't have to deal with it anymore. Haha.Lindsay's Sweet Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11454253893760011474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-64713892718297647072017-01-17T11:21:43.592-05:002017-01-17T11:21:43.592-05:00THIS.IS.EVERYTHING.
I love everything about this ...THIS.IS.EVERYTHING.<br /><br />I love everything about this post and can relate. (God, can I relate!) It's true though, you have to get rid of the toxic people or they will without question, poison you too. Most relevant post I've read today. THANK YOU!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15800763927494986382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-25350023130869012042017-01-17T07:27:34.247-05:002017-01-17T07:27:34.247-05:00I actually assumed this was about toxic people bec...I actually assumed this was about toxic people because I think so often, they can do more damage than the other kind (especially if they're family members). I definitely agree with cutting them out of your life, but sometimes (like at work or with a family member) you can't, so you have to learn to deal with them differently. I know my husband had this situation with his father, but figured out a way to still honor him and take care of him in his old age, yet not allow himself to get sucked into the toxicity.Syncopated Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16284824722526828224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-87606603945848079022017-01-17T03:47:33.368-05:002017-01-17T03:47:33.368-05:00Fantastic quotes!Fantastic quotes!Nancy's Fashion Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18214797937864419226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-74603900920070523722017-01-16T22:18:48.604-05:002017-01-16T22:18:48.604-05:00It's unfortunate but I've had a similar si...It's unfortunate but I've had a similar situation where a very good friend of mine for years/bridesmaid in my wedding became so toxic due to her own unhappiness that I had to cut loose. I tried to help but when they only respond negatively and lash out, you know it's toxic. Your post is so on point with friendships and relationships that have this toxicity and the best thing is to break free for your own well-being, as hard as it may be.Emily @ Martinis | Bikinishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13771245700613396017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-81238708707028484672017-01-16T21:42:41.719-05:002017-01-16T21:42:41.719-05:00BRILLIANT advice. It is such a hard, yet necessary...BRILLIANT advice. It is such a hard, yet necessary, thing to do. Ultimately, in my experience, the hardest part of getting rid of toxic people is that feeling of guilt for hurting another. Just another instance where we need to prioritize our own experiences and feelings over that of another. <br />Also, don't cut me... i'm not THAT negative ;) I mean, you obviously have to wait til AFTER May to make that call at least ;) xoShaunacey Bonnevillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06077747255394912420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-9841143102463049312017-01-16T21:10:50.915-05:002017-01-16T21:10:50.915-05:00Removing toxic relationships can be so tough but o...Removing toxic relationships can be so tough but once you can be upfront honest and say "I don't have time for this in my life" it is the biggest lift of pressure from your shoulders. It's not easy but it's so worth it. Great advice my beautiful friend! Emelia @ Dream Big and Buy the Shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12058263707335927182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-91255118486843877332017-01-16T20:55:03.725-05:002017-01-16T20:55:03.725-05:00What a great topic! Love this :)What a great topic! Love this :)Midnight Cowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01421913320445099664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-89942824358729811142017-01-16T20:14:11.151-05:002017-01-16T20:14:11.151-05:00Thoughtful post. I definitely agree that people ca...Thoughtful post. I definitely agree that people can be toxic and there comes a point when it is between to respectfully set boundaries to maintain health in your own life. <br /><br />Amy Ann<br /><a href="http://www.straightastyleblog.com/" rel="nofollow">Straight A Style</a>Straight A Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07379025619218337214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-15032068584754040762017-01-16T19:06:42.172-05:002017-01-16T19:06:42.172-05:00Ugh, it can be hard to get toxic people out of you...Ugh, it can be hard to get toxic people out of your life sometimes. I really try to distance myself from these kind of people as much as possible, but it is hard if its someone close to you!<br /><br />Carrie<br />curlycraftymom.comCarriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07646332034591536363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4162841902328353969.post-65246376703053660262017-01-16T15:04:52.220-05:002017-01-16T15:04:52.220-05:00I'm currently having to deal with this now, an...I'm currently having to deal with this now, and let me tell you - it can be hard to get rid of some nasty people who just can't get the hint! But I've been trying to follow the "block and walk" moto, and it's working for me so far! And these pics all made me laugh! Not gonna lie - i just saved a few!! XOXO<br /><br />Shauna<br /><br />www.lipglossandlace.netShaunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11336997685547033968noreply@blogger.com